For example, they both come to an agreement that they mean no harm. Relatives want to be able to take care of their loved ones as much as possible, but they hate to see them unhappy. The decision about what is best for them is where these two sides begin to separate. I agree with wanting the best for the patient, but, again, not everyone shares the same definition of what is best. The pro-euthanasia side argues that the best thing is to let the individual choose his own destiny. While the opposite side agrees that the best thing for the individual is to talk to him about his treatments to change his mind