This has shaped how I perceive my relationships in my life. Rather it is a friendship or intimate relationship, it must always grow to be successful. Constant communication and clear boundaries are needed. Watching them struggle within their relationship, I always felt like I had to take a side. I had a feeling that spending time with my mother would make my father jealous and vice versa. At such a young age it was really overwhelming and I felt alone and scared. It was scary because I was new and didn't know what the outcome of the situation would be. I felt alone because my two older brothers were no longer at home. They were away with only a small idea of ​​what was happening. Seeing them go through this great struggle and come out as strong as them really inspired me. Seven years later and although they are still not a couple, they have built better communication and developed a stronger relationship. They smile more and are able to be in the same room without arguing. This past learning experience has shaped me to be the person I am today through the lesson of learning to always put family first. I learned that no